A collection of scriptural meditations from Saints and Fathers of the Church.

Whoever reproaches us gives us a gift, but whoever praises us, steals from us.

Wrath is a reminder of hidden hatred, that is to say, remembrance of wrongs. Wrath is a desire for the injury of the one who has provoked you. Irascibility is the untimely blazing up of the heart. Bitterness is a movement of displeasure seated in the soul. Anger is an easily changeable movement of one’s disposition and disfiguration of soul.

Our enemies (demons) fell because of their pride, and call us to follow them, and bring us feelings of praise. And if your soul accepts that praise, then grace will depart, until the soul becomes humble again. And so all your life you must learn the humility of Christ.

The first step toward freedom from anger is to keep the lips silent when the heart is stirred; the next, to keep thoughts silent when the soul is upset; the last, to be totally calm when unclean winds are blowing.

Our own will is like a wall of brass between us and God, preventing us from coming near to Him or contemplating His mercy.

If they will praise you, you must remain silent—do not say anything.

Empty your mind of these two things: the belief that you are deserving of great things, or the thought that any man is beneath you. If you do this anger will never be permitted to rise up within you.

Paissy the Great, having lost his temper, begged the Lord to deliver him from irritability. The Lord appeared to him and said, ‘Paissy, if thou dost not wish to get angry, desire nothing, neither criticize nor hate any man, and thou wilt have no anger.’

A true monk does no reproach and does not praise.

He who has put a stop to anger has also destroyed remembrance of wrongs; because childbirth continues only while the father is alive.

People of high spirit bear offence nobly and gladly, but only the holy and righteous can pass through praise without harm.

How then shall we escape the disasters that anger brings? By training the force of our feelings not to rush ahead of the power of reason.

A brother asked Abba Isidore the priest, 'Why are the demons so frightened of you?' The old man said to him, 'Because, ever since the day I began practicing ascesis, I have striven to prevent anger from reaching my lips.'

It is a great work to shake from the soul the praise of men, but to reject the praise of demons is greater.

Long-suffering and readiness to forgive curb anger; love and compassion wither it.

Do not want things to turn out as you would like, but want whatever happens. That way you will be at peace with everyone.

Prayer is the seed of gentleness and the absence of anger.

Anger is by nature designed for waging war with the demons and for struggling with every kind of sinful pleasure. Therefore angels, arousing spiritual pleasure in us and giving us to taste its blessedness, incline us to direct our anger against the demons. But the demons, enticing us towards worldly lusts, make us use anger to fight with men, which is against nature, so that the mind, thus stupefied and darkened, should become a traitor to virtues.

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